I have gotten a lot of grumpy remarks for saying this….
DPS is replaceable.
I have learned to live by this. To use this. To embrace the good and bad of this statement.
The bad: Getting swapped out and replaced.
The good: You really can say “No” and know they will go find someone else.
I don’t recall a raid that did not happen because I was the only one who said “No, I don’t want to go.”